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5 Reasons why saying “no” is kinder than saying “yes”

We’ve been taught that “yes” is a word of connection, of opportunity, of kindness. But here’s the thing—sometimes, the kindest thing you can say is no. I know it can feel uncomfortable, but leaning into that discomfort is where growth happens. Let’s talk about why saying no is an act of love, for yourself and others. […]

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The Struggle to Say “No”: Why It’s So Hard & What to Do About It

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What Are Healthy Boundaries and Why Do You Need Them?

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026. Self-Love & Relationships: How to Heal from People-Pleasing Trauma

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025. Self-Love & Emotional Sovereignty: Mastering Triggers, Boundaries & Resilience

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024. Self-Love & Boundaries at Work: The Art of Saying No with Confidence

True leadership isn’t about saying yes to everything – it’s about knowing when to say no. If you want to lead with confidence, set achievable deadlines, and be a role model for others, mastering self-love and boundaries at work is essential. In this episode, we’re diving into why self-love is the foundation of great leadership. You’ll learn how to […]

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What If the Secret to More Happiness Is Already in Your Week?

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023. The Self-Love Guide to Relationships: Boundaries, Red Flags & True Connection

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Boundaries Matter: Cultivating Joy, Self-Care, and Meaningful Relationships

There’s a wealth of resources waiting for you here, designed to empower you on your journey. From practical tips on setting healthy boundaries to self-care strategies and self-discovery guidance, you’ll find everything you need to leave people-pleasing behind and live authentically. Start at the top and explore the posts that resonate with you, or scroll down to browse by category. Not sure where to begin? Dive into my featured stories for some of my personal favorites!

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Ditch People-pleasing & Start Loving the heck out of yourself

We’re all faced with challenges. Bigger and smaller ones. But some of us handle these like superheroes, while others collapse under the burdens of responsibilities. What’s the difference between these two humans? Today’s episode teaches you how to build resilience and handle life’s challenges well, even when faced with adversity. Tune in and build your […]

009. How to handle adversity and do it well

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If you’re a recovering people-pleaser, you know how challenging it can be to set boundaries. Saying “yes” when you really want to say “no” can lead to burnout and loss of self-identity. In this guide, we’ll explore how to set boundaries for people pleasers and why it’s a crucial step toward self-love. Why Boundaries Are […]

How to Set Boundaries for People Pleasers

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Have you ever wondered if you are responsible for other people’s feelings? When you grew up with parents telling you you made them sad by not behaving as they wanted you to, you may still feel responsible for other people’s happiness or even anger. Then, today’s episode is a must-listen for you! I peel back […]

008. Am I responsible for other people’s feelings?

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Woman ending the struggle of saying "No" by writing down examples of how to say no in her notebook

No is one of the simplest words, yet it can be incredibly difficult to say No. Why is that? Why is it so hard to say “No”? And what to do about it? Can we make saying “No.” easier? I give you an easy and practical way to practice saying no that helps you make it easier.

The Struggle to Say “No”: Why It’s So Hard & What to Do About It

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There is this one word that gets you immediate relief. You’re annoyed, angry, sad, or even mad; it doesn’t matter what state you’re in, this F word sets you free. I know you’ve a specific word in mind…but let me surprise you. I’m sure it’s not what you’re thinking of. Tune into today’s episode and […]

007. The F word that sets you free

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Learn an easy method to calm down your nervous-system in under 60 seconds. You can practice it whenever you need to without anybody noticing it. And the best thing is that you can’t do it wrong – you can only do it right!

How to calm down your nervous system in under 60 seconds

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Have you tried out affirmations and been disappointed by the results you got? Do you wonder how to make affirmations work for you? I definitely have. That was 15 years ago when I started my self-development journey. In the meantime, I’ve learned a thing or two about affirmations. And I’m sharing my knowledge in today’s […]

006. How to make affirmations work for you

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I had my plans for today. Overall, I’m a very structured person and I like to plan ahead (especially my working time). But life had different plans. I was just about to write my weekly newsletter about the 4-7-8 breathing technique (which you’ll receive next week now) as my partner in crime, Christoph, came into […]

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