It All Began When He Said "No."
Sitting across from me, my (soon-to-be ex) boss stared at me and said, "You're not good enough. You're fired." BOOM. There it was, the one thing I was afraid of my whole life: the official confirmation that I wasn't good enough.
Soon after this, my fiancé broke up with me, my network disappeared (learn the difference between a network and real friends!), and I moved back in with my parents. There wasn't much left (other than a lot of not enough). I had fallen apart.
Cuddles with my adorable daughter, Earl Grey tea (with milk!), reading, and good natural skincare
daily rituals
Going for a walk in the woods, playing with my daughter, in the bathtub, on my yoga mat
YOU CAN FIND ME:
Small talk, love & light culture, acting as if everything is fine when it's not
I'm NOT ABOUT:
Natural ingredients, short emails, and cutting out the 'meh' to make room for the very best
I BELIEVE IN:
You take on more than you can handle because saying no makes you uncomfortable. But you're annoyed with yourself because you constantly say yes when you want to say no. You make sure everyone else is taken care of. But what about you?
Welcome, high-achieving people-pleaser. I'm glad you're here.
I know it's frustrating when you do everything "right," but it feels all wrong.
And I know how to change that.
My superpower is helping women to go from "Am I good enough?" to "Is this good enough for me?" while pursuing the kind of life they actually want...one with freedom, joy and peace.
That's the question you ask yourself time and time again because no matter what you do, it's never enough. (Pssst, that's not true; ask me how I know!) You're supposed to be happy with the life you've built, but you're not. You've checked off most points from your life plan, built a profitable career, have a network of friends, and seem pretty accomplished.
But something's off. You still feel unfulfilled. "What's wrong?" circulates in your mind, and you don't know the answer.
Am I good enough?
Norah Jones...again
listening:
Crumble cake
CRAVING:
It didn't start with you
READING:
Earl Grey tea with milk
DRINKING:
Bridgerton... my 10th time?
watching:
Currently
My Favorite Things
Perfume — my favorite brand is Guerlain! I love the old French perfumers.
my happy place!
In the woods! It's my zone of serenity where all of my best ideas happen.
Boots. I'm that girl with 87 pairs of shoes and a closet full of cozy sweaters. Hey, we all have our passions in life.
My Favorite Things
Roses. My favorite is Bienvenue, which has the perfect smell. I'd love to wear it as a perfume.
Cheesecake. With a good dose of lemon zest. Irresistible. I have to have it.
my guilty pleasure
Yoga! Nothing grounds me like a yoga session. It calms my mind and brings me back into my body.
coffee
Pool
EARLY BIRD
black & white
POPCORN
cake
Sparkling water
TEA
ocean
night owl
colorful
Ice cream
popsicles
Still Water
Where I stand on the super important stuff... Agree / disagree?
This That
or
"I've learned to stand up for myself and handle conflict in a way that feels good.”
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What my clients say:
for high-achieving women so you banish people-pleasing forever and feel confident in every interaction!
And I'm gonna give you word-for-word statements that you can have on the tip of your tongue if you need to say no or politely decline a request.
8 Steps to Healthy Boundaries Checklist
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I know you're strong and capable; you handle a lot. You take on more and more responsibility, doing it all on your own. But you don't have to do it all alone. I'm right here and I'll walk by your side.