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5 Reasons why saying “no” is kinder than saying “yes”

We’ve been taught that “yes” is a word of connection, of opportunity, of kindness. But here’s the thing—sometimes, the kindest thing you can say is no. I know it can feel uncomfortable, but leaning into that discomfort is where growth happens. Let’s talk about why saying no is an act of love, for yourself and others. […]

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020. Say No, Choose You: Self-Love and Boundary Basics

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019. Self-Love Starts Here: Discovering Your Core Values to Live Authentically

Are you ready to transform your life from the inside out? In this episode, we’re diving deep into the foundation of self-love—your core values. Discover how aligning your daily choices with your authentic self can boost your confidence, strengthen your relationships, and help you set healthier boundaries. We’ll explore practical steps to uncover your true […]

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018. Break the People-Pleasing Cycle to Unlock Self-Love and Confidence

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017. Discovering Your Personal Values for a Self-Loving New Year

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016. The Power of Saying No: A Self-Love Holiday Survival Guide: Set boundaries with confidence, honor your needs, and bring more joy to the busiest time of the year

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Boundaries Matter: Cultivating Joy, Self-Care, and Meaningful Relationships

There’s a wealth of resources waiting for you here, designed to empower you on your journey. From practical tips on setting healthy boundaries to self-care strategies and self-discovery guidance, you’ll find everything you need to leave people-pleasing behind and live authentically. Start at the top and explore the posts that resonate with you, or scroll down to browse by category. Not sure where to begin? Dive into my featured stories for some of my personal favorites!

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Woman ending the struggle of saying "No" by writing down examples of how to say no in her notebook

No is one of the simplest words, yet it can be incredibly difficult to say No. Why is that? Why is it so hard to say “No”? And what to do about it? Can we make saying “No.” easier? I give you an easy and practical way to practice saying no that helps you make it easier.

The Struggle to Say “No”: Why It’s So Hard & What to Do About It

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It might not always be obvious that the cause for your relationship or communciation challenges is a lack of boundaries. To help you clearly identify whether you need to set a boundary or improve your communication skills, I share with you 12 signs that indicate you might lack boundaries.

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Have you ever asked yourself what healthy boundaries actually are? And what differentiates them from unhealthy ones? I’m here today to answer this question and give examples of healthy versus unhealthy boundaries. Sounds interesting? Good. Let’s dive into it. Healthy boundaries are balanced boundaries. That means you don’t set rigid boundaries with no exceptions to […]

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Healthy boundaries are key to living a life rooted in self-love, yet they can feel challenging to establish. In Say No, Choose You: Self-Love and Boundary Basics, we break down what healthy boundaries really look like and how you can confidently say “no” without guilt. You’ll learn practical scripts for setting boundaries and responding to push-back, […]

020. Say No, Choose You: Self-Love and Boundary Basics

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Are you ready to transform your life from the inside out? In this episode, we’re diving deep into the foundation of self-love—your core values. Discover how aligning your daily choices with your authentic self can boost your confidence, strengthen your relationships, and help you set healthier boundaries. We’ll explore practical steps to uncover your true […]

019. Self-Love Starts Here: Discovering Your Core Values to Live Authentically

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In this episode, Break the People-Pleasing Cycle to Unlock Self-Love and Confidence, we’re diving deep into how to shed the habits that keep you stuck in people-pleasing mode. Discover how embracing self-love can empower you to set healthier boundaries, rebuild your confidence, and transform your relationships for the better. Whether you’re exhausted from saying “yes” […]

018. Break the People-Pleasing Cycle to Unlock Self-Love and Confidence

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We explore the transformative power of self love and how it’s the foundation for building confidence, setting healthy boundaries, and cultivating meaningful relationships. If you’ve been feeling disconnected or overwhelmed, this episode is a must-listen. I’ll guide you through practical steps to uncover your personal values and how aligning your life with them can help you create boundaries that protect your peace […]

017. Discovering Your Personal Values for a Self-Loving New Year

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Feeling stretched thin this holiday season? In this episode of Self-Love Session, we dive into the art of saying no – gracefully and guilt-free – so you can protect your peace, prioritize your needs, and actually enjoy the holidays. You’ll learn practical strategies for setting boundaries, embracing self-love, and avoiding burnout during the busiest time of […]

016. The Power of Saying No: A Self-Love Holiday Survival Guide: Set boundaries with confidence, honor your needs, and bring more joy to the busiest time of the year

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Struggling with holiday stress? In this empowering episode, we dive into how you can navigate family gatherings, gift-giving, and emotional dynamics during the festive season. Discover practical strategies to set loving boundaries, honor your energy, and redefine self-love for a season of true joy and authenticity. Ready to banish people-pleasing forever? Get your FREE gift: 8 Steps […]

015. How to Redefine Self-Love for the Holidays: Tips for navigating family gatherings, gift-giving, and setting boundaries during the festive season

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Ever found yourself stretched too thin, saying “yes” to everything and regretting it later? You’re not alone. High-achieving women, especially those who tend to people-please, often sacrifice their well-being for others. In this episode, Nadja Hagen uncovers why embracing the power of “no” isn’t just self-care – it’s a radical act of self-love and confidence […]

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Are you living authentically? Or do you hide and seek approval and belonging? Embracing your authenticity shows you the power of being yourself. This episode talks about what it means to embrace your authenticity and the power of being yourself that comes with it. Let’s explore what it means to be authentic (it’s not throwing […]

013. Embracing authenticity: the power of being yourself

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for high-achieving women so you banish people-pleasing forever and feel confident in every interaction!

And I'm gonna give you word-for-word statements that you can have on the tip of your tongue if you need to say no or politely decline a request. 

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