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The Struggle to Say “No”: Why It’s So Hard & What to Do About It

No is one of the simplest words, yet it can be incredibly difficult to say No. Why is that? Why is it so hard to say “No”? And what to do about it? Can we make saying “No.” easier? I give you an easy and practical way to practice saying no that helps you make it easier.

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012. How to break the cycle of people-pleasing

Do you say yes when you want to say no out of fear of being mean, rude, or pushing people away? Then you’re people-pleasing, and you’ve probably noticed the cost of it. Are you asking yourself how to break the cycle of people-pleasing? If you’re nodding your head, today’s episode is for you. In this […]

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011. The second six signs you might lack healthy boundaries

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010. The first six signs that indicate you might lack healthy boundaries

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009. How to handle adversity and do it well

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"Setting a boundary" means protecting your joy and well-being.

There is an abundance of resources for you here, from tips on how to set healthy boundaries and self-care to guidance on self-discovery. Start at the top and explore the posts that resonate, or scroll down to browse by category. Not sure where to start? Click featured stories to read my favorites.

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Self Love Sessions Podcast by Nadja Hagen

Do you say yes when you want to say no out of fear of being mean, rude, or pushing people away? Then you’re people-pleasing, and you’ve probably noticed the cost of it. Are you asking yourself how to break the cycle of people-pleasing? If you’re nodding your head, today’s episode is for you. In this […]

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Do you constantly experience relationship challenges? Or would you rather stay alone at home because being with people has become exhausting? You might not have relationship issues but boundary issues instead. Tune into today’s episode to find out if it’s a relationship or boundary issue and learn about the second six signs (out of twelve) […]

011. The second six signs you might lack healthy boundaries

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Do you constantly experience relationship challenges? Or would you rather stay alone at home because being with people has become exhausting? You might not have relationship issues but boundary issues instead. Get to know the first six signs that indicate you might lack healthy boundaries. Tune into today’s episode to find out if it’s a […]

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We’re all faced with challenges. Bigger and smaller ones. But some of us handle these like superheroes, while others collapse under the burdens of responsibilities. What’s the difference between these two humans? Today’s episode teaches you how to build resilience and handle life’s challenges well, even when faced with adversity. Tune in and build your […]

009. How to handle adversity and do it well

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If you’re a recovering people-pleaser, you know how challenging it can be to set boundaries. Saying “yes” when you really want to say “no” can lead to burnout and loss of self-identity. In this guide, we’ll explore how to set boundaries for people pleasers and why it’s a crucial step toward self-love. Why Boundaries Are […]

How to Set Boundaries for People Pleasers

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Have you ever wondered if you are responsible for other people’s feelings? When you grew up with parents telling you you made them sad by not behaving as they wanted you to, you may still feel responsible for other people’s happiness or even anger. Then, today’s episode is a must-listen for you! I peel back […]

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Woman ending the struggle of saying "No" by writing down examples of how to say no in her notebook

No is one of the simplest words, yet it can be incredibly difficult to say No. Why is that? Why is it so hard to say “No”? And what to do about it? Can we make saying “No.” easier? I give you an easy and practical way to practice saying no that helps you make it easier.

The Struggle to Say “No”: Why It’s So Hard & What to Do About It

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There is this one word that gets you immediate relief. You’re annoyed, angry, sad, or even mad; it doesn’t matter what state you’re in, this F word sets you free. I know you’ve a specific word in mind…but let me surprise you. I’m sure it’s not what you’re thinking of. Tune into today’s episode and […]

007. The F word that sets you free

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Learn an easy method to calm down your nervous-system in under 60 seconds. You can practice it whenever you need to without anybody noticing it. And the best thing is that you can’t do it wrong – you can only do it right!

How to calm down your nervous system in under 60 seconds

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If you're struggling with constant stress, overwhelm, and strained relationships, let boundaries come to the rescue. Learn to set healthy boundaries, prioritize your needs, and build relationships that enrich your whole life. My 8 Steps to healthy boundaries checklist guides you through the whole boundary-setting process so that you set boundaries and feel good doing it.

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